How to support a victim and survivor to make a disclosure
How to support and encourage victims and survivors to make a disclosure.
Do speak in a safe place - check it's safe
Don't speak in front of others or the perpetrator
Do make safety the priority
Don't tell them to leave and get frustrated if they don't
Do preserve confidentiality - explain your limits
Don't tell the perpetrator, breach a confidentiality agreement, promise to keep a secret
Do have an empowering approach - build confidence
Don't blame the victim, ask what they did
Do believe
Don't mediate or suggest counselling
Do empathise - show emotion
Don't show shock, horror, judgment or disinterest
Do explain the limits of your role
Don't do nothing
Do offer specialist support
Don't attempt to offer specialist advice
Do use accredited interpreters
Don't use family or friends to interpret